Harold Robert Meyer | The ADD Resource Center
Reviewed 01/21/2026 – Published 02/07/2026
Listen to understand, not just to respond
This template is designed to keep you focused, respect the teacher’s time, and ensure you leave with a clear plan. Print this out or keep it open in a notes app during your meeting.
📝 Parent-Teacher Conference Prep Sheet
Student Name: ____________________
Meeting Date/Time: ________________
Allotted Time: (e.g., 15 mins) _______
🎯 Pre-Meeting: My “Big Three”
Before the meeting, list the three most important things you want to discuss. Send these to the teacher via email 24 hours in advance if possible.
- Academic: (e.g., Reading fluency, math fractions)
- Social/Emotional: (e.g., Making friends, focus in class)
- Logistical/Other: (e.g., Upcoming absence, volunteer ops)
📊 Questions to Ask the Teacher
If the conversation lulls, use these “power questions” to get high-value feedback:
- “What is one area where [Child’s Name] has shown the most growth recently?”
- “What does [Child’s Name] struggle with most during independent work time?”
- “If we do one thing at home to support their learning this month, what should it be?”
⏱️ The Mid-Meeting Check
When there are 5 minutes left, transition to the wrap-up.
- Notes/Observations: ________________________________________________
- The “Parking Lot”: (Topics we didn’t finish that need a follow-up email)
✅ Action Plan (The “Who Does What”)
Don’t leave without knowing the next steps.
| Task | Who is responsible? | By when? |
| Example: Practice sight words | Student/Parent | Nightly |
💡 Pro-Tips for the Meeting:
- For Video Calls: Log in 3 minutes early to test your mic and camera. Ensure your background isn’t distracting.
- The Exit: At the 15-minute mark, even if you’re mid-sentence, say: “I want to be mindful of the next parent’s time. I’ll email you about [Topic X] so we can wrap up now.”
- The Thank You: A quick “Thank you for your time today” goes a long way.
About the Author
Harold Meyer founded The A.D.D. Resource Center in 1993 to provide ADHD education, advocacy, and support. He co-founded CHADD of New York, served as CHADD’s national treasurer, and was president of the Institute for the Advancement of ADHD Coaching. A writer and international speaker on ADHD, he has also led school boards and task forces, conducted workshops for educators, worked in advertising and technology consulting, and contributed to early online ADHD forums.
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