Harold Robert Meyer and The ADD Resource Center 02/25/2025
Parenting a child with ADHD while ensuring their non ADHD sibling feels equally valued requires intentional strategies to address differential attention, emotional burdens, and perceived inequities. Key approaches include structured one-on-one time, validating emotions, fostering open communication, and leveraging external support systems. This guide synthesizes expert-backed methods to maintain family harmony and nurture both children’s well-being.
Approximately 30% of siblings of children with ADHD report feeling neglected13. Left unaddressed, these feelings can lead to resentment, emotional withdrawal, and long-term relational fractures. Proactive parenting mitigates these risks while modeling empathy and fairness—skills that benefit both children.
Non ADHD siblings often suppress their needs to avoid burdening parents already stretched thin by ADHD-related challenges1. This excessive accommodation manifests as:
Without intervention, these patterns can evolve into chronic anxiety or resentment.
Assuming the neurotypical child requires less guidance risks emotional neglect. As ADHD specialist Harold Meyer notes:
“Even ‘low-maintenance’ children need deliberate emotional check-ins to feel seen. Absent this, they may interpret busy parenting as favoritism8.”
Frequency: Aim for 30–60 minutes weekly with each child, separate from routine activities like school events25.
Tactics:
Hold weekly discussions to:
Harold Meyer’s ADD Resource Center (ADDRC.ORG) emphasizes skill-building for:
Consult a therapist or ADHD coach if:
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