When Your Child Plays Mom Against Dad
If you’re constantly feeling played by your child with ADHD, you’re not imagining it—and you’re not alone. This pattern creates exhaustion, resentment between partners, and an unstable home environment that actually makes ADHD symptoms worse. Understanding the neurological drive behind this behavior transforms it from a personal attack into a manageable challenge. When you learn to present a united front, you’ll reduce household conflict, strengthen your partnership, and—surprisingly—provide the predictable structure your child’s ADHD brain desperately needs to feel secure and function better.
